By Bladimir Martinez
I remember when I first met her. She looked like an angel sent from heaven; she made me smile just by looking at her and when we talked, I felt like the happiest guy alive. She understood me and helped me out a lot. Fast forward to the present, I now realize how toxic this relationship was.
She wasn’t the person I thought she was; at first she was the sweetest person I had ever met. She always made me laugh and smile, made me feel like I was important to her. She would listen to my problems, she would give me advice, it seemed like she loved me as much as I thought I did her. But later on, I found out how she truly is; the relationship itself didn’t feel very loving anymore.
Throughout the relationship I had felt manipulated. I feel they were short tempered in a way that would make me blame myself and I wouldn’t make them happy. I always tried to make the relationship work in anyway I could, but it didn’t work out the way I wanted it to.
The person seemed self-centered which left a bad taste in the relationship, and the relationship began to drift apart. We went from talking every single day to not talking at all.
The reason it was a toxic was because throughout the whole relationship, it seemed like she had two sides: a sweet side and an angry side.
One moment she would be very sweet and caring towards me and the next she would lash out.
This relationship affected me because I put so much time and effort into it to make it a great relationship but she didn't seem to care as much as I did. I did learn that I’m an extremely patient person when it comes to friendships, and I also found out that I don’t give up easily on friendships. I learned how caring I could be towards people.
Anyways, my advice to people is be patient with people, talk to them about how you feel and if they don’t change, maybe consider taking them out of your life. In my opinion, you don’t need that type of negativity in your life. Instead, surround yourself with people that are as interested in you as you are in them.
In all honesty I have no hate towards this person, and I’ve learned it’s best to just let go of the past and move on. So if this person ever wants to be friends again I’m cool with it. Also, it's important to remember that not all relationships are toxic. I’ve made some dope friends, and life’s great.
I remember when I first met her. She looked like an angel sent from heaven; she made me smile just by looking at her and when we talked, I felt like the happiest guy alive. She understood me and helped me out a lot. Fast forward to the present, I now realize how toxic this relationship was.
She wasn’t the person I thought she was; at first she was the sweetest person I had ever met. She always made me laugh and smile, made me feel like I was important to her. She would listen to my problems, she would give me advice, it seemed like she loved me as much as I thought I did her. But later on, I found out how she truly is; the relationship itself didn’t feel very loving anymore.
Throughout the relationship I had felt manipulated. I feel they were short tempered in a way that would make me blame myself and I wouldn’t make them happy. I always tried to make the relationship work in anyway I could, but it didn’t work out the way I wanted it to.
The person seemed self-centered which left a bad taste in the relationship, and the relationship began to drift apart. We went from talking every single day to not talking at all.
The reason it was a toxic was because throughout the whole relationship, it seemed like she had two sides: a sweet side and an angry side.
One moment she would be very sweet and caring towards me and the next she would lash out.
This relationship affected me because I put so much time and effort into it to make it a great relationship but she didn't seem to care as much as I did. I did learn that I’m an extremely patient person when it comes to friendships, and I also found out that I don’t give up easily on friendships. I learned how caring I could be towards people.
Anyways, my advice to people is be patient with people, talk to them about how you feel and if they don’t change, maybe consider taking them out of your life. In my opinion, you don’t need that type of negativity in your life. Instead, surround yourself with people that are as interested in you as you are in them.
In all honesty I have no hate towards this person, and I’ve learned it’s best to just let go of the past and move on. So if this person ever wants to be friends again I’m cool with it. Also, it's important to remember that not all relationships are toxic. I’ve made some dope friends, and life’s great.